Crossing the Threshold to Success

If you’ve officially grown exhausted from chasing Success & never catching up to her, stop & take a breath. Family Constellation Therapist, Marine Sélénée, is here to tell you why you’re lost in this race to begin with. Consider this required reading. Time to cross the threshold to your full power, babe. See you on the other side.

What happened to your mom when she was 5 months pregnant with you? 

The fifth month is in connection with your career. 

And yes that’s how far back you can be influenced or impacted by something or someone that you had no control over. You can even extend it further, looking at previous generations.  

To begin exploring, ask yourself the following questions: 

Did you have a challenging relationship with your mother?
Did you have a challenging relationship with your father?
Were your parents successful at what they did for a living?
Did a parent fail in providing for the family?
Did your parents separate when you were young?
What was your mother’s attitude toward your father? 
What was your father’s attitude toward your mother?
When you were young, did you experience a physical or emotional separation from your mother?
Did your mother, father, or a grandparent die young?
Did you, your parents, or your grandparents have any siblings who died young?
Did you or anyone in your family gain significantly at someone else’s expense?
Was anyone cheated out of an inheritance?
Did anyone inherit or acquire wealth unjustly?
Did anyone in your family go bankrupt, lose the family wealth, or cause the family to experience financial difficulty?
Did anyone outside your family cause your family to experience financial difficulty?
Was anyone rejected for being a failure, a loser, a gambler, etc?
Do you have impoverished ancestors?
Did you or your parents emigrate?
Were your family members forced to flee or driven out of their homeland?
Did you or anyone else in your family hurt, cheat, or take advantage of someone?

Right now, you may be wondering “Wow, why so many questions about my family?”

Well, guess what… unresolved traumatic events in your family can hinder how success flows to you and how well you are able to receive it. 

The successes in life come first, then comes the success in work. 

Therefore, if you do not feel connected with Life, meaning receiving the gift of Life from your parents, it may be more difficult to embrace abundance mode. 

My first recommendation, when you feel blocked in your career or with money, is to take a deeper look into your relationships with your parents. 

Do you respect them? 
Do you welcome them? 
Do you have a difficult relationship with them? 
What’s your story with them? 

When you have spent a sufficient amount of time exploring your shadows and dynamics with your parents + family, you can practice the following affirmations: 

“I take you as my mother/father.”
“I receive the gift of Life from my parents.”
“I belong.”

Right now, are you feeling connected with your family? Again, it’s not about Love, it’s about respect and acceptance towards them, towards what was so you can then be fully grounded in what is. 

Welcome your parents and family. Stop shutting down. Stop holding on. They did the best they could. Period.

Become a grown-up. Stop judging the past while the only way is forward. This will also clean up any blocked energies. Success and Life work on the same dynamic: Being alive. Feeling alive. Existing. Being. 

So… embrace Life to the fullest and success will arrive in a minute! 

*Please note: I am not talking about abusive parents. What they did was wrong. However, your story does not define you and you have the power to change the pattern.  You have the power to be a happy and peaceful adult. 

Connected Fates, Separate Destinies: https://www.amazon.com/Connected-Fates-Separate-Destinies-Constellations/dp/140196205X

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